... And Ben has made a stack of amazing pancakes with various combos: lemon and sugar, nutella, yogurt and fresh fruit, and maple syrup - all fried up in oil. I ate one and he ate the rest, followed by a large iced coffee. Then, last weekend, he made a batch of enormous and very delicious fruit scones which we all had with jam and butter. Today he was the first to make claim to our new ice-cream maker to whip up some frozen fruit yogurt).
Ben has always loved cooking and in the Bad Old Days of High Anorexia, he was an absolute whiz at de-calorising recipes to come up with some horrible, bland, fat-free concoctions. He wouldn't even add a tablespoon of oil to bread dough. These days, his cookery and baking is pretty close to normal, the only glitch being that he often uses low fat margarine instead of the full fat version. And you wouldn't catch him baking a chocolate fudge cake or anything like that. Or, if you did, he wouldn't have a slice.
One day he will...
I hope...
Want information on eating disorders in boys? Worried your son has an eating disorder? What are the signs of eating disorders in boys? In 2009 my 15-year-old son developed anorexia. Now aged 31 and with a MSc in Psychology he is recovered & working in mental health using his experiences to help others. I help to raise awareness of eating disorders in boys, point parents to helpful resources & talk about how eating disorders can traumatise families.
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