Tomorrow afternoon I've arranged to meet with the Assistant Head, Head of Sixth Form and School Nurse about the problems Ben is still experiencing at school. On the agenda will be...
Want information on eating disorders in boys? Worried your son has an eating disorder? What are the signs of eating disorders in boys? In 2009 my 15-year-old son developed anorexia. Now aged 31 and with a MSc in Psychology he is recovered & working in mental health using his experiences to help others. I help to raise awareness of eating disorders in boys, point parents to helpful resources & talk about how eating disorders can traumatise families.
Tuesday, 31 January 2012
Monday, 30 January 2012
Thanks Giant Fossilized Armadillo for these questions
Giant Fossilized Armadillo often comments on my blog and is herself in remission from anorexia. Here are some fun questions she asked some of her contacts today with my answers. Just for fun, kind of...
"Not suicidal enough"
For some reason at 3am this morning I got thinking back to the time when Ben was suicidal. This was throughout the summer of 2010 when he was at his worst, five months into treatment and ten months after his GP referral. The thought came to mind: "Just how suicidal did he have to be before anyone would take action?"
Sunday, 29 January 2012
Would GPs be so slow in responding if we were talking cancer?
I went along to an all-day BEAT conference in Leeds yesterday, with another ED mum I know well. One thing that came across strongly from the various speakers and discussions was the apathy, lack of awareness and sheer dragging of feet shown by British GPs when faced with a young person needing to be referred for eating disorder treatment.
Wednesday, 25 January 2012
Starbucks with a woman who knows eating disorders inside out
ELT is a 40-something academic who has lived with anorexia since her teens. She is now in remission and always insists on Full Cream Milk in her favourite Cappuccino with Chocolate Sprinkles, naturally. She is one of the many friends and contacts I've made in the world of Eating Disorders over the past months and years, and she lives just around the corner from me.
Tuesday, 24 January 2012
Saturday, 21 January 2012
Today's baking reminds me of Baking Days From Hell...
Ben's about to make amaretti biscuits, except he's customising them because we don't have any almond paste so he's using marzipan (which it says you mustn't use, LOL...) So a bit of improvisation is required. In the Bad Old Days this would probably have led to yet another Baking Day From Hell...
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PART SEVEN of the notes I was making as my son hurtled into anorexia in 2009/10...
By the beginning of 2010, my son's anorexia was getting worse and we still didn't have a date for treatment. Ben was changing in fro...
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This is what Ben's dad said over and over again - and still does on 'bad' days. It's also what I used to say sometimes. ...
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Last week I had a chat with a local GP about eating disorder awareness which was quite illuminating. Obviously this is just one GP from just...
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"Okay, it's wonderful knowing that young people in Scotland are being given a better chance of recovery, and sustained recovery, fr...